Whos Your DREAM DATE?
Lets make this one fun... think about it, who's YOUR dream date? If you could go out with anyone who would it be.... For me, it's gotta be Mariah Milano or a a younger salma hayek. Damn she was SMOKING in Dusk Till Dawn...
Better yet, now, ask yourself... What do you need to do in order to have this women? Well, what do I mean? You can spend your time jerking off to the computer screen wishing you could have this sort of woman with a tissue box and your KnY Jelly... or you can ask yourself what it would take for you to be able to Date Your DreamDate... your dream girl.
See, like anything, you have to work for something that you really want. These dream women.. they put work into themselves to look hot; they take care of themselves WELL. They also learn how to be sexy, and feminent as well as finances, passions, acting, etc. The most basic of course is their looks, but the women you want really TAKE care of themselves... to maintain that... so there for you have to maintain yourself. For Men, our looks isn't what we need to put the Bulk of your attention on.. it's our life which therefore alters our personality and thats the real thing we're trying to change. Instead of 'faking' personality, we actually BECOME the personality we want to be like.
The work that you have to do when it comes to getting your dream girl/ girls, is the work on yourself . It's handling your life. When you handle your life, the women come. It's a funny thing, but women are a great source of motivation and inspiration for handling your life, particulalry the ones you really want.
Who's your dream girl? And what do you need to handle in your life to naturally have her? What do you need to do to be naturally attractive?
Remember, do the work, don't say your going to do it in your head/ later... procrastination leads to nowhere.
The trick is to get the goals to be ABOUT YOUR LIFE... and not neccesairly about impressing the girl... but impressing YOURSELF and using the DREAM GIRL as MOTIVATION
VERY Profound. Re read the last part, if not the whole thing again. Nothing like women to inspire a man... espicially a very hot one. ;-)
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Size Doesn't Matter..
Size doesn't matter... At least not with your wallet
I once heard a good looking hot female friend of mine tell me that she would rather go with the guy making an average salary then someone who's 'rich'.... Because the former is more fun.
It sorta didn't make sense to me... Well, actually it did. See I was fortunate enough to have learned these 'basic' concepts from the world of dating and seduction coaching from a young age... 14 to be exact.
There I never felt a strong need to spend money on women... In fact, women have probably done more for me 'monitarily' speaking then I have done for them. Probably by a good margin.
How is that possible? And no these weren't sugar mommas... They were regular girls.
It's because I didn't buy into this bullshit about men needing to have money to impress women. It's the biggest load of crap I've ever heard.
Money should never be used to impress women. Money should be used to impress yourself. And that's it. You don't need to take women on expensive dates and spend absorbent amounts of money. Heck, you don't even 'have' to take them out at all....
But whatever you do you need to be real. If you want to spend money on women from a place of authenticity, and having it be real, then by all means go ahead. I'm not saying dint spend money on women... I'm saying you don't HAVE to do it to IMPRESS her... You do it because you choose to. Because you want to impress yourself.
That's how I got away with all these times of not spending money on women... And still having women fall for me.
I'm real. I don't want to spend anything on women... Unless I really want to.
Like buying tickets to a play because I want her to feel great because it makes me feel great to give her that... Or I'm paying for the meal because she payed last time.. But honestly I do like being wined and dined ;)
Anyways, the major point in this blog entry is to get you to understand that the size of your wallet doesn't matter as far as women go... It's your personality.
I don't mean don't handle your finances. Do that. But do it for you and not to impress her.
So on a bigger end... Don't be a Doctor so you can get girls... I've seen those same doctors shell out the money they earn from trying to impress women to come to workshops so they can learn how to stop doing that.
Re read the last paragraph. It's important.
And if you want to be rich for you, like I do, or because you just 'like' being the sugar daddy... Then fine, but you have to actually want that for you.
When you do stuff for you, then you become fun. Because your happy and more importantly, fulfilled.
And don't all girls just want to have fun?? ;)
I once heard a good looking hot female friend of mine tell me that she would rather go with the guy making an average salary then someone who's 'rich'.... Because the former is more fun.
It sorta didn't make sense to me... Well, actually it did. See I was fortunate enough to have learned these 'basic' concepts from the world of dating and seduction coaching from a young age... 14 to be exact.
There I never felt a strong need to spend money on women... In fact, women have probably done more for me 'monitarily' speaking then I have done for them. Probably by a good margin.
How is that possible? And no these weren't sugar mommas... They were regular girls.
It's because I didn't buy into this bullshit about men needing to have money to impress women. It's the biggest load of crap I've ever heard.
Money should never be used to impress women. Money should be used to impress yourself. And that's it. You don't need to take women on expensive dates and spend absorbent amounts of money. Heck, you don't even 'have' to take them out at all....
But whatever you do you need to be real. If you want to spend money on women from a place of authenticity, and having it be real, then by all means go ahead. I'm not saying dint spend money on women... I'm saying you don't HAVE to do it to IMPRESS her... You do it because you choose to. Because you want to impress yourself.
That's how I got away with all these times of not spending money on women... And still having women fall for me.
I'm real. I don't want to spend anything on women... Unless I really want to.
Like buying tickets to a play because I want her to feel great because it makes me feel great to give her that... Or I'm paying for the meal because she payed last time.. But honestly I do like being wined and dined ;)
Anyways, the major point in this blog entry is to get you to understand that the size of your wallet doesn't matter as far as women go... It's your personality.
I don't mean don't handle your finances. Do that. But do it for you and not to impress her.
So on a bigger end... Don't be a Doctor so you can get girls... I've seen those same doctors shell out the money they earn from trying to impress women to come to workshops so they can learn how to stop doing that.
Re read the last paragraph. It's important.
And if you want to be rich for you, like I do, or because you just 'like' being the sugar daddy... Then fine, but you have to actually want that for you.
When you do stuff for you, then you become fun. Because your happy and more importantly, fulfilled.
And don't all girls just want to have fun?? ;)
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