Size Doesn't Matter..

Size doesn't matter... At least not with your wallet

I once heard a good looking hot female friend of mine tell me that she would rather go with the guy making an average salary then someone who's 'rich'.... Because the former is more fun.

It sorta didn't make sense to me... Well, actually it did. See I was fortunate enough to have learned these 'basic' concepts from the world of dating and seduction coaching from a young age... 14 to be exact.

There I never felt a strong need to spend money on women... In fact, women have probably done more for me 'monitarily' speaking then I have done for them. Probably by a good margin.

How is that possible? And no these weren't sugar mommas... They were regular girls.

It's because I didn't buy into this bullshit about men needing to have money to impress women. It's the biggest load of crap I've ever heard.

Money should never be used to impress women. Money should be used to impress yourself. And that's it. You don't need to take women on expensive dates and spend absorbent amounts of money. Heck, you don't even 'have' to take them out at all....

But whatever you do you need to be real. If you want to spend money on women from a place of authenticity, and having it be real, then by all means go ahead. I'm not saying dint spend money on women... I'm saying you don't HAVE to do it to IMPRESS her... You do it because you choose to. Because you want to impress yourself.

That's how I got away with all these times of not spending money on women... And still having women fall for me.
I'm real. I don't want to spend anything on women... Unless I really want to.
Like buying tickets to a play because I want her to feel great because it makes me feel great to give her that... Or I'm paying for the meal because she payed last time.. But honestly I do like being wined and dined ;)

Anyways, the major point in this blog entry is to get you to understand that the size of your wallet doesn't matter as far as women go... It's your personality.

I don't mean don't handle your finances. Do that. But do it for you and not to impress her.

So on a bigger end... Don't be a Doctor so you can get girls... I've seen those same doctors shell out the money they earn from trying to impress women to come to workshops so they can learn how to stop doing that.

Re read the last paragraph. It's important.

And if you want to be rich for you, like I do, or because you just 'like' being the sugar daddy... Then fine, but you have to actually want that for you.

When you do stuff for you, then you become fun. Because your happy and more importantly, fulfilled.

And don't all girls just want to have fun?? ;)